Don't Stop Chasing

Hey Guys! How's life? Today is the next 4 days from my birthday. Hahah

Thank you for the people who have made my day! Especially my lover, family, and bestfriends! You are all rock! Hahahah :)

Many gifts, many prayers comes out. Thank you so much for those sweet and blessed words. And also the great gifts. Heheh

So this time, I just want to share my feeling about how I wonder me and my boyfriend could run together this long. It isn't like the previous stories in my life though. We are now has already been together for almost 3 years and a half. Quite long. But nothing I could feel than just feel in love all over again in each day. Yes, I love him. Though sometimes, I also still worry about how it could be and still wondering why people out there seem to be easy to cheat on their couple and be dishonest with their relationship. Then I end up with these words.

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face.

But...

Once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. Actually me and my boyfie ever been in this kinda situation, but we could pass it smoothly.

So, in order for a relationship to work, don't ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over. Appreciate them as your great couple, treat her/him as same as the first time you want her/him so badly to be yours. You know, it needs two to tango! ♥

a good one deserves a good also.

Cheers! :)